Good-natured Realist: Love

• My Type
• My Career
• My Love
• My Happiness

Good-natured Realists like you rarely fall in love head over heels. You approach a new relationship very carefully and guardedly. That has to do with the fact that you are one of the introverted Realists who don’t carry their heart on their sleeve, and you need a little time to warm up. Additionally, you have expectations of what you are looking for, and what you need in matters of love. Before you give your heart away, you want to be sure that your counterpart is the right one. In most cases, that protects you from disappointments - and that is good because deep inside, you have a very vulnerable core that does not easily get over genuine lovesickness. However, you permit yourself to get totally involved once you are convinced that your chosen person is worthy of your love.

It is the main purpose of your life to care for others. There is nothing that makes you happier than to look after and take care of your partner. It is an easy equation for you: If he/she is happy, you are happy. You have a very loving, warmhearted, and generous nature that sees to it that your partner simply feels comfortable and in the best sense in good hands and secure with you. You may not be a person of many words but that is not even necessary. Just because you don’t continuously reaffirm it, whoever is with you will be showered with devotion, care, and attention to the point that he/she won’t doubt your love.

With your fine intuition for your partner’s wishes, how he/she feels, or what he/she happens to need at the moment even before he/she does, nothing brings you greater joy than to make sure that your partner gets it right away (and probably some extra icing on the cake he/she could not have imagined). Hardly any other type engages him/herself as intensely for his/her sweetheart as you do. That almost borders on a willingness to sacrifice. And this also works in matters of sexuality. You’re so intent on figuring out what your partner enjoys, and how you can best make him/her happy, that you often forget that you are supposed to have some fun yourself. When you happen to have a headache, it is suspected that you rarely manage to say “no,” correct?